Creating a Memorable Engagement

Getting engaged is a very special moment in any couple’s life; it's a moment that they will remember forever and hopefully a once-in-a-lifetime occasion. Therefore everything about the engagement must be special, from the ring to the location and even the ring box. In this article, we take a look at various ways to create a memorable engagement.

Choose a special location

Location is important when proposing; one way to make things extra special is to choose a location that’s meaningful to your relationship. This could be the location of your first date or a special place you often visit together. You could also visit the first place you went on holiday together or the location where you shared a special memory. This location will then hold even more memories for you and your partner.

Plan what you’re going to say

In the heat of the moment, your mind can go blank, and finding the right words to say to your partner can be hard. To prevent this from happening, you should plan what you’re going to say in advance, so if your mind goes blank, you have the words you’ve already rehearsed ready on paper or in your mind. The words you choose can be as simple or as complex as you like; just make sure you keep things positive and explain to your partner how much they mean to you and how you want to spend the rest of your life with them. Also, it's essential not to forget the question you want to ask, “Will you marry me?”.

Capture the moment

Your engagement is a moment that you’ll want to treasure forever and look back on in the future. You can do this by capturing the moment on video or with photos. Ask a passerby to video you or set up your phone to capture the event. If this isn’t possible, make sure you take some photos together at the place where you get engaged. These photos will be treasured memories; you can look back on them fondly throughout your marriage.

Choose the ring carefully

The engagement ring you choose needs to be suitable for your partner, don’t pick up any ring; think about their tastes and preferences. The size also matters, do your homework to find out your partner’s ring size so you don’t have to exchange or have the ring altered after the proposal. The engagement ring box you choose can also make the occasion extra special. Choose a box they can treasure; some boxes can be engraved with a special message; these are perfect for people that struggle with expressing their feelings in words. Shop around and take your time when selecting an engagement ring and the box; there are many different options to choose between.

Pick the perfect moment

When proposing, you want to choose a moment where you won’t be rushed, and your loved one is in a great mood. Proposing after a fight is a bad idea, or when you’re in a rush to get somewhere. On holiday is a great time to propose as you’ll have lots of free time to spend together. Also, consider who’s there when you propose; some couples prefer to be alone, whereas others like to share the moment with friends and family. It may take some time to plan the perfect moment, but it will be worth it in the long run. After all, proposals are a once-in-a-lifetime experience, so it's worth the additional planning and preparation to make things extra special.

Creating a memorable proposal takes time, effort and planning. Think about every element of your proposal, including the location, the ring, what you’re going to say and what you’re wearing. If you want your proposal to be a surprise, you may need to play things down and get the help of others so you can successfully surprise your partner when you ask them to marry you. Don’t forget to capture the moment so you can fondly look back on the memories and discuss the day with your family and friends. All engagements are special, but the ones that have been planned down to every detail are even more memorable.